Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit Philippians 2:3 New King James Version
Christ first, others second and self last.
This is the motto of every Christian.
Before you commit to anything first in prayer and meditation take it to Jesus and ask if it conforms to His will. This is in every aspect of your life (believe me it will save you a lot of grief and trouble).
Does your language or the company you keep or your behavior bring glory to Christ or shame?
Next how does your action affect those around you?
Does your attitude or behavior unfairly hurt others?
Many relationships can avoid confrontation and bitter feelings if you follow this mode.
Prayer: Please Jehovah Chanan (God is gracious) bless my behavior and language that it is full of grace like You are so that I may bring glory and honour to You and guide others to You. As well bless me to be sensitive to others like Jesus was so my disposition will guide others to You and we can be blessed with a harmonious relationship. I humbly request this in the name of He who never thought of Himself first Jesus Christ. Amen.
May the sunshine of Jesus’ sweet love bless you today and every day