Too Many Times

A lying tongue hates its victims, and flattering words cause ruin. Proverbs 26:28 The Holy Bible, The New Living Translation

Too many times toxic men or women give false apologies and demand your forgiveness .

Just always keep this in mind: true repentance does not just come from saying you are sorry but also from stopping your abusive behavior and compensating where appropriate ( so if you borrowed money, pay it back ).

Do not tell me you are sorry, show me you are sorry.

Actions speak louder than words. Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah

Prayer: Please Jehovah El Emeth (Psalms 31:5 LORD GOD of Truth ) guide my words to be arrows that pierce the hearts of the wicked when they are attempting to entrap either those around me or myself with sweet talking and false promises. I ask this in the name of He whose piercing words of truth sent the wicked a scurrying, Jesus Christ. Amen

indeovi vas ( may you live with Jesus in Latin )

Seleh- stop and think about it.

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As you think so too you are. Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah.

IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A GOOD SITE ON HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXIC PEOPLE AND GET HEALING IN A CHRISTIAN MANNER PLEASE GO TO https://www.youtube.com/@Kris_Reece/videos HER ADVICE HAS HELPED TREMENDOUSLY

Must be Earned.

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Those Who Refuse To

Yes you are to forgive.

As for forgetting, those who truly repent do not throw it their face about past offences.

Those who refuse to repent you remember their offences and learn how to put up wall to protect yourself from being abused by them again. Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah

Forgive Yes,

Forgive yes, forget impossible. Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah.

Forgive Yes, Forget Impossible.

Do not believe this satanic lie that we must forget a traumatic experience in order to truly forgive.

Think of it like a program that is on your hard drive on your computer. No matter how hard you try, you will not erase that program.

I tree planted on the west coast of Canada for many years. Almost all blocks were chopper blocks. They would fly the trees in on slings. When they came in you stopped planting and kept your eyes on that chopper. If the sling broke those seedlings would fly like bullets when they hit a rock and could do serious damage to you. You hit the ground quick

Thirty years later whenever I hear a chopper I stop doing what I was doing and do not take my eyes off of it.

So too it is with a traumatic experience, a smell, sound or sight can take you back there.

Do not beat yourself up if you cannot forget.

Forgive yes, forget impossible. Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah.

Prayer: Thank you Jehovah Immeka (Judges 6:12 The LORD Is with You ) for blessing me with The Holy Spirit to to comfort and console me whenever triggers take me back to traumatic experiences. I praise You in the name of He who experienced the most traumatic death for my filthy sins, Jesus Christ. Amen

indeovi vas ( may you live with Jesus in Latin )

Seleh- stop and think about it.

This photo and article @ Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah 2024

Anyone is free to use this material and distribute it but it may not be sold without authors consent As you think so too you are. Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah.

IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A GOOD SITE ON HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXIC PEOPLE AND GET HEALING IN A CHRISTIAN MANNER PLEASE GO TO https://www.youtube.com/@Kris_Reece/videos HER ADVICE HAS HELPED TREMENDOUSLY

He convicts us.

And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever the Spirit of truth. John 14:16 New International Version

First the Holy Spirit will convict us of our sins.

This will lead to our repenting of sin.

When we repent of our sin He will give us power to not do the sin.

For example I used to be the type to want revenge when someone did me wrong. There was a man that was very bad to me and we parted ways. A few years later I saw him advertise his services on a Christian web site. I intended to write a very bad review of him to destroy his service.

The Holy Spirit came and convicted me.
He asked me why I intended to do this.
I tried to reason that is the truth.
He would not let it go.
He asked: “Yes. But why do YOU want to do this?”
I had to confess it was for revenge.
“And what does the Bible say about revenge?” He asked?
“Seek not revenge but leave it in My hands says the Lord.” was my reply.

“So, what are you going to do now?” He again inquired?
“I am not going to send the report.” I surrendered to Him.

Prayer: Thank you Holy Spirit Elohim (Holy Spirit our creator) for creating in me a heart that is open to Your conviction and the wisdom and strength to listen and obey Your guidance. I give thank for this precious blessing in the name of the great convicter Jesus Christ.

These articles were written when I was a teacher in China

indeovi vas ( may you live with Jesus in Latin )

Seleh- stop and think about it.

This photo and article @ Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah 2024

Anyone is free to use this material and distribute it but it may not be sold without authors consent

But if There is No

We need to forgive but if there is no repentance on behalf of the offender we are to keep the relationship formal so as to not leave ourselves open to more abuse. Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah

Creates a New Way To

Forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future. Lewis B. Smedes

Can someone please explain what this means?

New Way To

Forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future. Lewis B. Smedes

The Most Loving Thing

I will pray The Holy Spirit helps me to forgive those that have abused me, convict them unto repentance and be loving to them no matter the abusive way they treat me ( sometimes the most loving thing we can do is to is to stay away from them as they are not interested in a loving relationship but just abusing you ) . Joseph- Anthony a son of Jehovah