With Grace and Tact

Starting a quarrel is like opening a floodgate, so stop before a dispute breaks out. Proverbs 17:14 The Holy Bible, The New Living Translation

Have you ever watched water gush over a dam?

Imagine standing under its power. It would be extremely stupid and devastating.

In every relationship there are sore points and unresolved issues. When these sore points are brought up it is opening the flood gates of hurt and pain.

Instead of bringing them up whenever you cannot get your own way the most important thing to do is pray for resolution, preferably with a Christian councillor.

Most times the guilty party refuses to go into counselling, most times it is because of pride. One they do not want to admit they were wrong and two they do not want to take responsibility for their actions and three the injured soul does not want to let go of the hurt, they use it like a crutch and they use it to manipulate.

When the other party begins to go on this stupid wheel of destruction, it does cause deep cuts with the words that are said in the heated battle, just inform them that if they wish to continue the discussion we will do so in a Christian councillors office. If you refuse to do so it is an admission of guilt on your behalf. When you are mature enough and ready for reconciliation let me know and we will go to the Christian councillors office. Other wise this discussion is over. Then just walk away.

If someone refuses to go into mediation with you, walk away. They are not interested in resolution but rather in their favorite hobby, fighting. Joseph a son of Jehovah

It works wonders for me.

Prayer: Please Elohim Ozer Li (Psalms 54:4 GOD My Helper ) please help me to be a wise child of Yours and know how to resolve conflicts with wisdom and grace. When these conflicts involve the spawn of the devil who delight in fighting, manipulation and domineering rather than seeking resolution please bless me with the wise but firm words to inform them I am not playing their perverted little games and until they are ready to behave in a mature manner there is nothing more to be said. I humbly request this in the name of He who quieted the hypocrite Pharisee’s with grace and tact Jesus Christ. Amen

May you be blessed with the wisdom to know when to sit down and work things out and when it is time to walk away. Joseph a son of Jehovah

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Call Upon Him in Truth.

The Lord is near to all who call upon Him, To all who call upon Him in truth.Psalms 145: 18 New King James Version

The important part of this equation of this verse is that we are to call upon our beloved in truth.                                                                                                                                  

Many men and women only consider the part where the Lord is near to those who call upon him and forget the second part.                                                                                  

So if for example you are have difficulty in a relationship instead of asking Jehovah to force the other one to see your point of view why not ask that He blesses both of you to see the problem and how to solve it wisely along with the strength to do so.                        

Many times they do not want to see that the problem may be themselves and they need to change.                                                                                                                                    

So we must call to the Lord in truth, accept His advice, pray for the wisdom and strength to obey His advice and then take the proper action. This may mean that you may have to get Christian counselling if not together than go yourself.                                              

Prayer: Please Jehovah KalEL (voice of God) bless me with the wisdom and strength to be an obedient child and listen and obey the voice of my Heavenly Father whenever I encounter any problems. I humbly request this in the name of Your most obedient son Jesus Christ. Amen.                                                                                                            

May the sunshine of Jesus’ sweet love bless you today and every day.

 

What am I going to do?

“With Him are wisdom and strength, He has counsel and understanding. Job 12:13 New King James Version

What am I going to do, depend upon You.

When you have offended someone and you know you need to apologize and you just do not have it in you, that is when you need to sincerely pray to Jehovah to bless you with the wisdom, grace and meekness of the Holy Spirit to help you.

Now that does not mean that the Holy Spirit will do all the work, you have to put forward the effort. Nor does it mean it will be easy.

Swallowing pride is the hardest thing to swallow. Joseph- Anthony: Green

It is the same thing when someone has hurt you bad and you know you need to forgive them but do not have it in you to do it. They may not even care whether you have forgiven them but it is very good for both your spiritual, mental and physical health. That is a proven medical fact about the mental and physical. I have seen more than a few who have sacrificed their physical and mental health on the alter of bitterness and grudges.

Holding onto anger and hurt only hurts you more than the one who offended you. Joseph- Anthony: Green

When you have six men or women telling you to do this and six telling you to do the opposite what are you going to do?  I went through times when I thought it only to drive me crazy in my teens going through this.

You depend upon Jehovah through prayer and many times seeking good Christian counselling.

Prayer: Thank you Jehovah KalEl (voice of God) for Your gracious gift of abundant wisdom, meekness and grace that has brought me through many mazes in life and healed many wounds, both that were caused by me and by those inflicted upon by me. I give glorious thanks for this blessing and humbly request it continuance through He who healed many and always gave the best advice when He walked amongst us Jesus Christ. Amen.

May the sunshine of Jesus’ sweet love bless you today and every day.