All wrongdoing is sin, and there is sin which does not [involve] death [that may be repented of and forgiven]. 1 John 5:17 The Holy Bible Amplified Version
There is no conning Jehovah. Saying you are sorry just so you do not face the consequences of your wrong doing means nothing to Him. You are just trying to manipulate Him without addressing the wrong doing. It is insulting and disrespectful.
A false apology is worse than no apology. Joseph a son of Jehovah.
When with a sincere heart we humble ourselves before Him and repent of the wrong doing, we are forgiven.
Now repent means we admit what we did, admit it was wrong, apologize for it and stop doing it. Therefore Jehovah will guide us (through the Holy Spirit) in the proper manner and time to repent to those we have done wrong to( Especially, those which belong unto His family. He takes that sin very personal.
When Saul encountered Christ on the road to Damascus Jesus asked Saul why he was persecuting Him, not His followers, which means Christ takes it personally). Sometimes we cannot reconcile with the injured party because it is beyond our means (maybe they have died) but when we repent with pure motives He is quick to forgive the deed.
When we have committed a sin against Jehovah, the Holy Spirit will guide us in the way in which to reconcile with Jehovah.
There is no forgiveness without repentance. Joseph a son of Jehovah
When we have truly repented of our sins, Jehovah is quick to forgive us.
”There is no greater state than to get up from your knees knowing that God has forgiven every sin you’ve ever committed.” ―R.C. Sproul
Prayer: Thank you Jehovah Elohay Selichot (God Of Forgiveness) for the blessing of Your Divine loving graciousness of forgiving me when I have repented of committing offences against either or You or others. It blesses me not only with peace of mind but with the assurance of our continuing eternal love affair. I praise You in the name of He who shed His blood so my sins could be forgiven Jesus Christ. AMEN
May the gentle assurance of Jesus’ sweet love encompass you today and every day. Joseph a son of Jehovah