Starting a quarrel is like opening a floodgate, so stop before a dispute breaks out. Proverbs 17:14 The Holy Bible, The New Living Translation
Have you ever watched water gush over a dam?
Imagine standing under its power. It would be extremely stupid and devastating.
In every relationship there are sore points and unresolved issues. When these sore points are brought up it is opening the flood gates of hurt and pain.
Instead of bringing them up whenever you cannot get your own way the most important thing to do is pray for resolution, preferably with a Christian councillor.
Most times the guilty party refuses to go into counselling, most times it is because of pride. One they do not want to admit they were wrong and two they do not want to take responsibility for their actions and three the injured soul does not want to let go of the hurt, they use it like a crutch and they use it to manipulate.
When the other party begins to go on this stupid wheel of destruction, it does cause deep cuts with the words that are said in the heated battle, just inform them that if they wish to continue the discussion we will do so in a Christian councillors office. If you refuse to do so it is an admission of guilt on your behalf. When you are mature enough and ready for reconciliation let me know and we will go to the Christian councillors office. Other wise this discussion is over. Then just walk away.
If someone refuses to go into mediation with you, walk away. They are not interested in resolution but rather in their favorite hobby, fighting. Joseph a son of Jehovah
It works wonders for me.
Prayer: Please Elohim Ozer Li (Psalms 54:4 GOD My Helper ) please help me to be a wise child of Yours and know how to resolve conflicts with wisdom and grace. When these conflicts involve the spawn of the devil who delight in fighting, manipulation and domineering rather than seeking resolution please bless me with the wise but firm words to inform them I am not playing their perverted little games and until they are ready to behave in a mature manner there is nothing more to be said. I humbly request this in the name of He who quieted the hypocrite Pharisee’s with grace and tact Jesus Christ. Amen
May you be blessed with the wisdom to know when to sit down and work things out and when it is time to walk away. Joseph a son of Jehovah
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As Christ is our King, so too are we His free will servants Joseph a son of Jehovah
I have been a faithful servant of our Lord for the past forty years.
He has led me to move from the farm to the city. It was there I learned natural medicine as well as to serve by doin volunteer work in a hospital. This was preparing me for the next stage of growth and service unto Him.
The next phase was to live in a tent in the western provinces of Canada planting trees. It has here in His marvelous creation of nature that He taught me so much of Himself while serving others in camp as a first aid attendant. If anybody got sick or injured they always came to me. As well, I learned to be a big brother and care about their mental health and for most, it was the first time they were ever loved.
This caring for others prepared me for the next step which was to be a teacher all over China. Here not only did my example guide many to our Heavenly King but also taught me how to deal with narcissist.
This prepared me to come home to take care of a narcissistic mother while dealing with narcissist family members.
It was in China that the Lord also guided me to become a Christian writer which has been faithfully done for the past ten years.
I know not what will happen tomorrow but I know who holds tomorrow in His hands and it is Him I place my total confidence and trust in. Joseph a son of Jehovah
Hello again my brother,
this is just to let you know that I tried again, but I had to try with 3 different browsers and only on safari was I now able to follow your new blog, on the other ones, the option was not showing, so you may want to look into this.
I hope you will keep your comforting, edifying and precious posts coming on the new blog, thank you so much for blessing us with daily messages from GOD, your posts are very much appreciated!
GOD bless you.
Eva
I am impressed with your persistence.
Perhaps you will have to wait until the first post which will be on Monday.
I admire and am humbled by your dedication.
Good afternoon precious sister.
I love how our Father works.
I have been trying for a week now to set up the new blog to no avail.
After a weeks prayers our Beloved guided me on how to accomplish this.
The first post will be tomorrow.
I really appreciate and respect your determination.
Your brother in Christ
Joseph
josephsdailywalkwithjesus 
February 4, 2021 at 7:12 am
Hello again my brother,
this is just to let you know that I tried again, but I had to try with 3 different browsers and only on safari was I now able to follow your new blog, on the other ones, the option was not showing, so you may want to look into this.
I hope you will keep your comforting, edifying and precious posts coming on the new blog, thank you so much for blessing us with daily messages from GOD, your posts are very much appreciated!
GOD bless you.
Eva
February 4, 2021 at 12:15 pm
Hello precious sister.
I am impressed with your persistence.
Perhaps you will have to wait until the first post which will be on Monday.
I admire and am humbled by your dedication.
February 4, 2021 at 3:08 pm
Good afternoon precious sister.
I love how our Father works.
I have been trying for a week now to set up the new blog to no avail.
After a weeks prayers our Beloved guided me on how to accomplish this.
The first post will be tomorrow.
I really appreciate and respect your determination.
Your brother in Christ
Joseph