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This is Where the Battle Began.



And you will desire to control your husband Genesis 3:16 New Living Testament

This is where the battle began.

The battle between men and women.

And, if you doubt it is a battle, just ask any seasoned cop the worst fights they have to break up.

I have met few husbands that are not hen picked by their wives. I find most women conniving, deceiving, manipulating and when they cannot get their own way spiteful little bitches from Hell. This is especially true in todays society. As well, it was extremely prevalent in tree planting. That is why the majority of men vets in camp would have nothing to do with the females in camp. 

That is why I praise the Lord every day that He guided me to never get married.

I have seen it in every society I have lived in (and I have lived in numerous places all over the world and I have lived with folks from countless different societies. This rings true in all of them).

If you desire a loving relationship (between a man and woman as Jehovah has said is normal, everything else is perverted) than you must have a Christian one. Read Pauls instructions for a marriage. The man is to respect the woman and vise versa. Please read Ephesians 5:22- 33 in the Amplified Bible (you can find that on line on

You are mine, I am yours is the mantra for a successful normal marriage (between a man and a woman). Anything else is doomed to fail. Joseph a son of Jehovah

I have seen this in many elderly marriages and they are still like two teenagers with their first bad case of puppy love. I admire and respect them. And, if you are having problems in your marriage, they should be the go to to solve the problem.

Prayer: Please Jehovah Rabbi (God our Teacher) instruct men and women how to conduct themselves in a loving respectful manner towards each other in matrimony so as to be a shining example to those in the dark world out there. I humbly request this in the name of He who is the husband of Your church Jesus Christ. Amen

May the gentle assurance of Jesus’ sweet love encompass you today and every day. Joseph a son of Jehovah

Author: ropheka

As Christ is our King, so too are we His free will servants Joseph a son of Jehovah I have been a faithful servant of our Lord for the past forty years. He has led me to move from the farm to the city. It was there I learned natural medicine as well as to serve by doin volunteer work in a hospital. This was preparing me for the next stage of growth and service unto Him. The next phase was to live in a tent in the western provinces of Canada planting trees. It has here in His marvelous creation of nature that He taught me so much of Himself while serving others in camp as a first aid attendant. If anybody got sick or injured they always came to me. As well, I learned to be a big brother and care about their mental health and for most, it was the first time they were ever loved. This caring for others prepared me for the next step which was to be a teacher all over China. Here not only did my example guide many to our Heavenly King but also taught me how to deal with narcissist. This prepared me to come home to take care of a narcissistic mother while dealing with narcissist family members. It was in China that the Lord also guided me to become a Christian writer which has been faithfully done for the past ten years. I know not what will happen tomorrow but I know who holds tomorrow in His hands and it is Him I place my total confidence and trust in. Joseph a son of Jehovah

17 thoughts on “This is Where the Battle Began.

  1. I’ve been dealing with a manipulative witch since 2007, so I get it. But as T.D. Jakes said during a sermon I transcribed and will post next week, men’s sickness typically sends women to Jesus. Scroll through the news — men have serious problems. They rape, they kill (sometimes over stupid things like a guy blaring his bass too loud), they beat their wives, they kidnap people’s children and throw them away…
    It’s a sick, selfish world on both sides.

    • Actually most fights are started by women.
      Men are raped by women almost as much as the other way around.
      Women are generally more manipulative and pure bitches when they do not get their own way.
      These statistics come from Canada, Britain (actually women can now be charged with rape there and if the women cannot prove the man raped her she can go to jail because women were pressing so many false claims against men) and the United States.
      Compare how many shelter houses there are for men with their children compared to women and be prepared for a shock.
      When a child is murdered by a parent it is usually by the mother.
      Women are far from helpless abused creatures they make themselves out to be.
      I have seen more men abused by women than the other way around and have been a victim of it myself on more than a few occasions. When men report the crime most cops laugh at them and society mocks them. Believe me I speak from a lot of experience having seen it and gone through it.

  2. People forget that they become one when married. They should treat the other half as they would treat themselves for God’s Word says so.

    • A great big Amen to that sister.
      I have seen a few marriages like that and greatly admire them.

      • As with lots of things today, society has transformed the wife into a nagging, snarky figure that should embarrass the man and be feared. The men are being portrayed as weak, silly creatures to be led around. Not the head as he should be. I cringe when I hear, if mama ain’t happy then no one is happy. Seriously? As a mother, and wife, I try to put the needs of the family first. Does it always make me happy? In the immediate, not always but in the long run it always makes me happy 🙂 Great post about a subject that isn’t discussed enough 🙂

      • It is disgraceful the way men are portrayed on TV and in the movies.
        In the courts today it is almost impossible for a man to get a fair trail.
        Add to that how the women are messing up the boys in school and it looks bleak for the next generation of males.
        You sound like the type of woman that any self respecting man would be honoured to have as a life mate.

      • You give me too much credit Brother on the type of woman stuff. 🙂 I appreciate it but I am the least and I say that truthfully and humbly.

        God did bless me with the person that He wanted me to be with. God does things in such a way it can’t be denied, and this is one of those times 🙂

        The things you say about TV is one of the reasons I don’t watch too much of it. I saw a pattern. I feel women are as strong as men. God doesn’t make a creation in His image and it not be for a purpose. God made us perfectly for His glory. Men are the heads. This, I believe if it is missing then the one will struggle. Women are the, well, women 🙂 I don’t know how to explain it because I am not suppose to even have said as much as I have. Unless, I was as you so graciously said I was. I’d be discussing it with my husband, and having him give me his God given guidance on the matter 🙂 Praying to the LORD for my understanding, and to send you a man to discuss this topic with 🙂 Seems I have done that which I should not 🙂 LOL I am being facetious. I know we don’t live in “those” times. But maybe there was a logic to it 🙂 🙂

        I will wrap this up since I have left you a novel in your comments 🙂 I find that when I pray, converse and commune with the LORD. And treat my husband like the Bible says. Miraculously…it works. Praise the LORD.

        It works for other areas as well not just marriage but unions were the subject. I hope I haven’t strayed to far from that topic 🙂

      • Thank you for your insight which is very wise.
        I have found it a hit and miss in the treat others as you would like to be treated.
        Some have never been treated like that and it opens their heart to accepting Jesus.
        Most consider that manner of behavior weak and stupid and foolishly believe they can walk all over me. Sadly, for them, they are mistaken.
        I agree, in every situation the best course of action is to discuss it with our Beloved Father in Heaven, listen and obey His instructions. It avoids a lot of pain and anger, or it heals it.

      • Well said Brother, well said 🙂

      • This just showed up in my newsfeed. You’ll see why I’m sharing within the first three minutes: (If mama ain’t happy…)

      • Thank you.
        It is unfortunate that here in Canada that so many women, homosexuals and negro’s have a deep superiority complex against white Christian men (especially on university campus’). It seems to get worse by the day.
        I have seen a few relationships based upon mutual respect, they are the only ones I nurture, and they are priceless. It does not matter the colour of the skin or the nationality or the religion (if they have any).

      • I heard a great quote today pertaining to racism, among other things:

        “[Y]our mind becomes what it eats. If you watch anything all the time, you become that. If you read anything all the time, you become that. … That’s all school does is direct you to what to read so you can become that. You walk in the school a student and you come out a doctor. How did they make you a doctor, did they give you an injection? No, they just fed your mind, and your mind transformed into what it’s reading. So you’re gonna become whatever you read. … You came in the school Sally Johnson. You came out an astronaut. How do you know Sally’s an astronaut? By the things she read. So whatever you feed your mind, your mind becomes whatever you feed it. If you feed your mind militant stuff, you’ll become a militant. If you feed your mind racist stuff, you’ll become a racist. Children don’t come here racist. You ain’t never seen a racist baby. Baby sticking her tongue out at the nurse because she’s a different color or a different this or a different that. That’s a learned behavior. They sat around it, they heard it, it was taught to them, they were exposed to it. They became whatever they fed themselves. So if you’re gonna transform your mind, you have to change what you read and change who talks to you and change who hangs around you, and you’d be surprised how you change.” – T.D. Jakes

      • I agree and that is what is tearing our society apart. Some many today are taught that they are better than others whether it be race, sex or nationality. When I was a child I was taught to respect others for who they are rather than what they are.

  3. “I have met few husbands that are not hen picked by their wives.”

    This is the truth. The world has it so backwards… “He who finds a wife finds a good thing”. The man is supposed to find her and she is to be hidden in Christ. God has taught me so much and opened my eyes to marriage and how much the world has is so wrong. Marriage is such a big deal to God that when you understand what it is you realize the majority should not be ‘married’ as no one is qualified to be. “What God has brought together…” “He who finds a wife” “Do not be unequally yoked.”

    It is almost all for lust and selfish reasons people get married now. Rarely do you ever see a true Godly couple, but it is so refreshing when you do.

    • I completely agree with you on that.
      That is why I believe in long engagements. It gives each party to experience the real thing and not the public show. I am glad I followed the Lords advice on that one. It prevented me from getting into a few relationships that would have been a terrible disaster if we got married.
      Of course the tragedy in this is the children who end up feeling unloved and uncared for. I have seen it too many times and came along as a father figure for them.

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