Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding Proverbs 3:5 New King James Version
God knows not only you but the other person as well. There are many things in the other person that you do not see but He does. So therefore it is best to always trust Him in any and all relationships. It will prevent a lot of heartache, frustration and suffering later on in your life.
That guy may be a smooth talker but in reality is an abusive jerk. Man have I ever met a lot of them. Personally I have found those who like to dress in luxuriant styles are snakes in the grass.
That woman may appear to be sweet and innocent but in reality she is manipulative, domineering and a self centered emotional thief. They will suck the life out of you quicker that a vacuum cleaner.
That person may seem goofy because they are shy but when you talk with them you discover they are very wise. Many of the wisest men and women I have had the privilege to become friends with I at first thought they were are brite as a burnt out light bulb but were very intelligent,caring, respectful, loving and wise.
That person may seem like a snob but in reality is just a loner (just because we are loners does not mean we have mental problems either). I am a loner yet most people consider me very deep, caring and supportive once they get to know me.
Prayer: Please Jesus Rohi (God our Sheppard) guide me towards those who are loving, caring and respectful and away from the life suckers (those who suck the life out of you). I sincerely ask this in the name of He who was open to the loving ones and closed to the lurking wolves Jesus Christ. Amen.
May the sunshine of Jesus’ sweet love bless you today and every day.